This is how I learned to STOP 'living on autopilot' AND find love

 

Wondering if I'm alone in this…?

My single mindset

In my many years(-ties ;-)) as a single,

I only looked at the men:

– were good enough…?

– cute enough in a relationship…?

and could I trust them.

All this

without my influence!

Think!  Not at any time

I considered my role:

If I went too far

– or exceeded what felt good.

I was living on autopilot

The problem with living on autopilot,

is that it is still like the child who has learned to depend on the environment.

As an adult woman also the same approach

– to be dependent on whether the man does it 'perfectly'.

and it deprives us of the influence on the development of the relationship.

Wow I have made many diagnoses

if he does not behave as expected.

Mentally abusive? Narcissist? Psychopath (-the last one is especially cultivated)

 

The automaton was humanly made

When I slowly woke up,

it was like being blinded by the sun

Argh… again! again! again!

Have I gone too far?

Recognizable?

But what clarity the sun's rays

conversely also gave

You are guaranteed to know them as

the precious lessons.

Are you influencing the relationship yourself?

That's why I know firsthand that it's about more

to be present in the relationship

By paying attention to:  what is going on

Rather than whether he is a certain way.

Do you use him as…

-a 'rescuer',

-is he allowed to speak badly to you? '

-‘Do you think your– without reacting to it?

Is this often what makes us not react!

That's how little you need to start

Start with the two most important focuses:

1. Yourself in the situation.

Thereby you find out when something is not quite right.

2) Note, when you are analyzing

a situation…or him.

Instead, consider: “What would you like to say to him?”

Forget the interpretation...: He has also lost, he doesn't know, probably too...

It's the feeling, you have to take care of it.

In this way, I went from living on autopilot,

to get out of the paralysis and create the relationship that I (we) jointly want.

You can do the same.

There's never been a better time to start practicing—right now

If you keep doing the same thing, the same thing will happen.

(PS we do the same if we think the same)

 

Therefore, if you would like to stop repeating the past,

can you book an interview with me until 14/3

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