Are you ruining the relationship before it even starts?

do you know that that it causes problems in the relationship because you confuse disappointment in him with actually being hurt or angry with him?

Have you noticed that the man quickly feels criticized?

Read here how to express your feelings in a more successful way.

After you read the blog, you know how to fix it before you ruin the relationship.

 

When disappointment destroys the relationship

Dear beautiful woman

Might as well be you, I'm talking to, where it suits you,

that you sabotage the relationship, or the relationship before it has started?

If you don't, you unconsciously push him away from you because he senses criticism.

Hear what you can do to fix it.

Separate yourself from the critic

My husband is also quite vulnerable to criticism, so I know there is a gender difference here

Either because as a woman I find it quite easy to express disappointment towards him as a man,

maybe it just shows clearly on my face.

When a man feels that he "can never make you happy", he feels inadequate

and can very easily come to the decision that he does not see himself as the man for you.

Men LEAVE a relationship when they no longer feel like a man.

Listen to this sign

For example, has a man ever said to you, “I feel like I just can't make you happy”?

This is a symptom of sabotage in a relationship.

A person who feels unable to bring the other joy

due to scrutiny or claims.

Prepare yourself

Make sure to come up with a statement of feelings in the right way

and make sure to be aware of how you talk to him so he really hears you,

It could be that you just want to express how you feel.

yet women often use emotion statements completely wrong.

Avoid this

It is crucial that you don't blame him. Remember to express the essential, which is,

how you experience it when, for example, you feel hurt.

This is about YOU, not the man.

and it is definitely NOT to get a desired result.

Notice your feelings

Getting to know your feelings can take time and practice.

Everyone in your life and every moment is an opportunity to practice.

When you open up your heart and share your vulnerabilities,

you reveal your true heart and focus on the good.

It will make the man feel relaxed in your company.

Here he has the opportunity to feel like a man in your presence,

That feels VERY good for him!

Focus on the project

Remember, men LOVE to have a job. Not necessarily a 'job' but a 'task',

where he gets to be the man

and take care of something in a way only a man can.

It can be easy

Feminine energy moves slowly, it is not linear, so you can expect,

that it will take time to master these feminine energy techniques,

but still, you will start seeing results with your dating men or your husband pretty quickly.

Although you may find it difficult now, you can learn how to find your true,

real feelings and share them with a man when you come from the feminine energy.

What is behind disappointment?

Finding our feelings often means going past the first feeling,

– this is usually a feeling of disappointment.

I encourage you to go deeper beyond anger, disappointment and sadness.

There is always a fear lurking and it is your heart that speaks.

The loving focus

Finally, focus as much as possible on the GOOD things a man does for you.

Any little thing he does to help, or be kind…

let him know how it feels!

Even if it's as little as giving you a napkin or taking a clean shirt on the counter!

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Have fun with the love from Liv