Do you recognize it too?

You are over 40 and really ready for a relationship, but you are afraid that you don't look good enough?

It means that you fear love based on your appearance.

See how you can nourish love with loving feelings right now.

Previously a hidden problem?

Maybe appearance has always been a problem for you, so see here how you can change your mind

to your strength and more self-awareness.

Thought provoking that I have heard quite a few women say in the last few days

-my appearance is the biggest obstacle, otherwise I'm Boyfriend Ready.

And it is certainly relevant!

I myself have struggled with thinking I should look perfect

to be able to attract the right man.

...then one day I had enough and decided to change that...!

 Oh my God, it was hard because I found out that I did just that,

the worst thing you can do to make more men want to get to know me better.

And it was a breakthrough that it had nothing to do with appearance.

The biggest dating killer

The worst trait in a dating situation I had learned was to be: Skeptical!

and I could see that it was much worse than if I weighed 10 kg more or less,

had loose or tight skin.

I saw that in the women the men chose instead of me.

My skepticism left the man with a bad feeling,

and my behavior, gave me neither more strength nor self-insight.

Worst of all

the men felt like getting their legs on their necks.

A change only occurred when I began to find more self-loving ways.

Therefore, you can do nothing better than to use your appearance to

dare love – again. Start with 3 simple ways:

Challenge your thoughts

Notice which negative thoughts pop up the next time you think about your appearance.

Notice in particular whether they are realistic or exaggerated?

Then see what happens when you replace them with more positive and realistic thoughts.

For example, 'if I compare myself to colleagues of the same age, I can see that this is the course of nature.'

Now notice how you then think about yourself…

Are you investing in yourself?

A woman in my network tells me she feels ugly and unloved.

I recognize that when I see her. However, I also see many beautiful basic features.

And took it upon myself to give her a stylist so she gets a different hairstyle and glasses (emoji)

It is often decisive that we also put action behind our thoughts, so in that situation

you can't do something better to feel loved than by spoiling yourself.

Whether it's a trip to the hairdresser, spa or new clothes that make you feel good.

Investing in yourself and your appearance can be a big confidence boost.

Switch! – thoughts 

First of all, love is not perfect.

It is the feeling we get inside that makes us want more love.

It can help to accept that you are not perfect.

Most men also have things about their appearance that they are not 100% happy with.

One trick is to avoid comparing yourself to others.

Say: "Change!" every time you compare yourself, especially to those under 40.

Because you will never be 25 again.

So spare yourself the inadequate thoughts and feelings.

By consciously turning your thoughts to

strength and self-awareness.

I myself love to use 'Change', because it gives presence.

 

If you would like to work on becoming Girlfriend Ready, I will give you the opportunity to participate in my workshop Wed 24/5 2023

And the two best things about it are…

 1. It can give you the most beautiful man who wants more than anything to have a woman present who makes him feel amazing!

2. It's FREE!

https://livjohns.simplero.com/page/288928

Psst I was told that unfortunately there are many who waste many years getting a lot of good advice, but where the change only happens when we start doing something else, during the ENTIRE dating process. It is not enough to simply create a dating profile - which looks like everyone else's, or to have control over the appearance.