Think if you don't

had to work hard for love

that it automatically came to you

and that right now you were sitting with the right man.

The one who gives you blissful peace and rippling joy

So what must be fulfilled?

Have you thought about…

what is your personal love language?

Someone invented 5

Here are the 3 I hear

women most often ask for.

Choose your main love language

Which of these 3 love languages

must be fulfilled

for you to be happy & satisfied in a relationship?

1. Recognition
2. Time for each other
3. Physical touch?

Read more about what the individual languages contain...

1. Recognition

The language of love: Acknowledgment can cover all the things you want your partner to say

or ways he expresses his love for you:

Appreciative, kind, encouraging and loving

words, favors or gifts:

• You look SO good in that dress!
• You're so talented, I'm sure you'll probably get the job.
• You are an amazing mother!
• You have such a lovely laugh - I love it.
• Bouquet of flowers
• to do the laundry, which he knows you hate.
• to pick up the car at the workshop for you
• to cook dinner for you

What will it mean to you if your girlfriend does the above?

Note how important Recognition is -for you- on a scale from 1-10 (where 10 is the highest)

Or do you need more time for you to spend together?

2. Time for each other

The language of love Time for each other is about that be together, talk and do things together.

Perhaps you experience love most strongly when you feel your partner's (undivided) attention.

Where you are away from TV and mobile phone and you are just together. You want eye contact and your partner's undivided attention.

Time for each other can be:

• Intimate conversations where you are really met, seen and listened to.
• A shared hobby such as climbing.
• Dinner for two

Note how important Time for each other is -for you- on a scale from 1-10

3. Physical touch

The language of love Physical touch covers all forms of touch.

From sitting close together on the sofa, to hugging, kissing, holding hands, to having sex.

Since we all need touch, it is a well-known way of showing love.

If this is your primary love language, then it is absolutely essential:

• To lie in a spoon when you sleep
• Sex
• To be held when you are sad

Note how important Physical touch is -for you- on a scale from 1-10

Know your K language and avoid frustration

When you know your love language

you can also more easily notice what is most important to him.

Avoid the big mistake of failing to share your love language with your partner.

Or even worse, by not showing your boyfriend love in his love language.

Why is it crucial?

The woman proclaims: "I don't feel loved".

The man says: “Well, I love you dear! I also tell you that every single day!”

The man's love language is here, clearly acknowledging words,

where he tells her that he loves her every day.

He also says that she is lovely, sexy and amazing.

But she doesn't hear it After all, they are "just" words.

If her love language is Time together, then it feels to her,

like he doesn't love her.

She wants his attention.

It's love for her.

Now you know how to avoid a typical frustration in the relationship.

Happy journey towards more love.

Life