Are you tired of dating?
As in really tired?!
Have you considered doing something completely different?
For love you will (of course) not to be missed
then it's really lucky
that there are many places to find a girlfriend.
And you can start right now.
Forget everything about
That right now you're not quite ready
Allow yourself to try an experiment
Focus on, where you will meet a man this weekend
Write behind your ear that when something is new and difficult it is the most important thing
To make it easy and clear
Therefore
Can you start sneak training already now?
before the weekend when you have more time.
Because it can be borderline-crossing at the start.

Supermarkets, streets…
Use the places you already go,
but with a completely different approach
Now you are acting AND 'flirting'!
Make it a game.
Most important
Make it easy for yourself.
In the supermarket:
Get help finding the item
- maybe something that is too high.
(don't think girlfriend)
Rather, think in terms of 'play' so that you do not activate the fear of rejection.
Try today
Without too much deliberation,
if you see an interesting person
either on the street or in the supermarket
go and ask them something
Do you know where X is?
Deal?
Forget about evaluating what you do
The worst way to punish ourselves is,
to do the same as our parents did
They continuously assessed whether we had learned 'it' correctly.
Now you are an adult and have learned 'it'!
The effect lies in to do something else
Such as getting better at developing contact with a new man,
rather than whether you are cute enough, pretty enough...
On the street… Do you know if this bus goes to X?
Never mind, you already know the answer.
(I really want to do a physical Flirting Workshop ;-))
If now…
If you can feel that the person is also interested in you
(meaning that he doesn't just passively answer your question),
so keep talking together.
For the particularly brave: Mention something about how you could use a cup of coffee!
And! See what happens.
Remember it's pure play
and you might do something you've never done before…
NB: Important to flirt more than take the initiative -
if you want to cultivate your feminine side and let him be masculine.
Meet singles in the gym?
This tip is backed up by science.
It's always a good idea to play sports, right?
Here it is easy to meet other singles – for sports activities or in the gym.
It invites you to use the slow game,
where you makes use of the exposure effect
This psychological mechanism means,
that when we often see the same face,
we will begin to find it more attractive.
Give in to the instinct that it is natural to greet neutrally,
when you 'know' him, have seen him a few times.
Who knows, maybe one thing leads to another.
I almost want you to be allowed to experiment with this many times.
Because we learn something new and exciting.
Him from fitness… maybe you see him in other contexts,
then it is much easier to break the ice when you have already seen each other before.
Have fun with a loving spring game
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