After all, we all dream of finding true love.

Yet many are left with the feeling that they will never get there

that they do not find the boyfriend.

Do you know that you give up everything while you are left with the eternal Dilemma:

Is it the man or me that is the problem?

Read here why it is the dilemma that in the long run

makes you give up belief in true love.

Hear what you can do instead, so that you light and elegant

avoids

to answer impossible questions.

It steals your energy

Time goes on and on,

if he still hasn't appeared,

the thoughts will continue… swarming around – like mosquitoes chasing blood.

Is it me or the men who can't figure it out?

The brain works at high pressure in the attempt to solve the problem-

regardless of how pointless the issue is.

Because if you get it answered,

so will love appear?

Your Inner dating profile

It is frustrating when dating the text

not attracting the men you hope for.

Maybe you bet that if only the man is 'right'

then it will succeed this time.

So now if you tell him, how he should be….

So you don't end up finding the right one?

That's how a man should be

Imagine you write in the dating text, he must:

- have a sense of humor

- be empathetic,

- act like-minded

-could be trusted and much more…

In the same way that you have the most focus on how he should be.

All the energy is directed towards him and whether he lives up to your wishes.

Herein lie the clichés, because we will overlook the most important,

which true love revolves around  

that we first manage to DEVELOP a good contact. The one that gives chemistry. 

When you write the profile…

Just writing the profile text can be a stressful situation.

Have you noticed whether you are most frustrated or hopeful,

when you write it?

It may be that you recognize conditions such as that you:

- longed for after love

-doubts (on yourself) what am I doing wrong?

-hope you meet him soon,

- gives up, I never attracted the right man,

-is uncertain on whether you love yourself enough…?

-dry believe that you will meet love - again?

Imagine being bombarded with such conflicting emotions

How stressful it is!

Of course we would like to see an end to it. 

Therefore! Stop

Stop thinking: He or you are good enough!

Redirect your energy!

Dilemmas make you falter.

Because they are impossible to answer and wear out hope.

What else are you going to do?

Stick to the goal! Hold on to the fact that you are looking for love!

You are already good enough and so will the right one,

you attract the right one more easily by allowing yourself to be you - from the start.

The broken heart must be healed

These are the pieces to look for,

therefore, use the energy to put the pieces together

so that love can remain intact – again.

and you will eventually find true love.

PS The biggest litmus test of whether it is true love is in reality whether we can manage to be together every day.