Do you know it?

That you wait and wait but he hasn't shown up yet?

If so, then then maybe you have tried… different dating apps, being active in singles networks or

to continue with the wrong ones – it was a mistake. Then I might have the solution to the one thing you can do.

After reading the blog, have you learned that love requires focus in a completely different place than you originally thought.

When everything but love is important

Many women tell me they are frustrated waiting for love. At the same time, I hear that they ignore,

how they themselves relate to it.

They look at the weight, age and appearance, and whether they are lucky in love, or have a good personality, but otherwise…

The rest is completely up to the man when it comes to finding an intimate love partner.

Find me now!

It's as if we women disappear into a Love Fantasy World where only the man has a role and where...

-it's up to the man to find them,

-it's up to the man to save them,

-it is up to the man not to hurt them,

-it is up to the man to respect them,

The list is long and we are getting impatient. The worst thing is that the list is missing the most important thing.

When the setting changes

What is absolutely crucial is that your approach becomes more feminine. I clearly remember when Maja got a belief that a love relationship

can be safe because she now takes care of herself and can still indulge in the company of a man.

Her own changed attitude gave her completely new and more dating offers.

She does the opposite of what she did before. Now she is developing a healthy and rewarding long-term relationship, from the start.

That it is not either by being paralyzed or by fighting difficult battles. She is receptive,

open and soft, at the same time she only continues if the relationship is good.

She thus lays the foundation for the relationship, which should rather be a Dance of Love,

instead of it being a place of love.

What is missing from the list

If we don't know what creates love and don't know how to develop a relationship where both parties feel well adjusted,

then it will almost be experienced as an impossible task, simply waiting for the right one.

Rather, you have to go out and find him, based on the fact that you make contact with your dates.

A woman told me that she had found a boyfriend. It was still new when he suddenly disappears again.

The woman seems understandably paralyzed. One of the typical reasons why the man leaves is if he does not feel

that his presence is important.

It is more important than appearance that you have presence in the situation, that you emotionally dare to open up. This is crucial

in order to develop the right relationship.

Imagine if you meet the perfect man and don't realize it. Instead, he rushes away because he feels uncomfortable.

After I've known my sweet husband for a few months, in the heat of battle he calls me a nasty nickname. I'll take that down immediately,

and says I will not allow it. Imagine I don't get to react, but instead, hope it doesn't happen again,

as well as analyzing a lot of times on it. No, spending energy on that rather than love didn't match my new love habit.

Can you speak up without saying anything?

I also think that in the past it was quite difficult to say no. After I do it from a completely different starting point, it feels natural.

On top of that, I am co-responsible for developing the love relationship I want. If the man talks nasty, then it's nasty.

If we only pretend to be nice and stiffen when he squirms, then we are helping to remove ourselves from the good feeling,

we want in love.

Your Life-Changing Love Habit

The life-changing love habit that is the feminine approach will change,

how you relate to yourself and to a love partner in a completely new way.

Yes, you still cultivate the appearance, that's what catches the eye. As long as your focus is on making contact with the man

– based on the fact that you are in touch with yourself and the enjoying feminine woman.

NB: Yes, today you can take care of yourself. You have of course made sure to date in a safe environment. Of course we dare not flirt,

if we are not safe.

No: you don't have to find out on the date itself whether he's good or not. The date will be better if you wait with this

until you leave the date. Notice if you feel loved, valuable and happy when you leave.

Only from here do you consider your next step.

Let the next date be life-changing

Imagine that the next man you date feels like the one. Here you let him, as a man, be the active one.

While you lean back, you enjoy the situation and you sensuously express how much you enjoy the present,

which you are present in. Notice if he enjoys being in the relationship, otherwise you put everything in.

Have fun, play with the energy.

It's that simple.