The most important thing in the beginning is to be able to determine whether he is the right one...

Have you thought more deeply about what it is that makes you think a man is the right one?

It may be that what is decisive for you is not just whether he is understanding or not, nor kun, if he treats you with respect…

Rather, it is the sum of several important areas he must fulfill.

See here if you can recognize the reasons why you feel he is the right one or not.

For me, all 3 of them have had a great impact on the longevity of my relationships - i.e. when I first learned to date ;-)

1. Do you like his scent?

After 12 years I know this holds. Because I was immediately physically attracted to my husband and like to be close to him.

The fact that you like the man's fragrances makes it more likely that he matches you, so you don't have to use willpower in the long run when the days of falling in love are over.

2. Is he the right one - among others

Do you like to hear him, see him and experience him when you are out together. I enjoy the way my husband meets friends.

They get the great pleasure of seeing each other again. Who hasn't tried curling toes when he is with family and friends.

It is important

that you are proud of him and can see that he both gives and receives respect. These are good dating signs.

3. Are you going to stay with him?

I often use the 'post-meeting test', immediately I leave a meeting (this does not only apply to the boyfriend).

Because here you get the most honest answer to: How you feel comfortable with yourself and whether he is good for you.

If not… we can tend to analyze ourselves away from something that is not good enough:

"He also said he had had a really stupid day." are typical explanations.

If you have to justify him too much in order for you to feel respected by him, something is wrong here.

With 'the post-meeting test', you can honestly feel:

• whether you feel important and good as who you are?
• feel appreciated?
• experience you as smart, good, funny and just beautiful as you are.

Isn't it just nice to be able to experience yourself as good enough as you are?

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