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You just have the love in your life that you long for? Where you find yourself worthy of the long-term relationship. Or, just that you experience love through 2ness. Then I might have the solution for you.

Get the simple, but too many unconscious reasons why we are drawn to love. Learn about…

– the answer to why love is so important

- why love feels both hyped up and yet so crucial for a good life

-why it is difficult to choose correctly and be able to separate lust from love.

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 Do you know more about why love is the essence of life - the salt of life and the answer to life's happiness

 

Love is the essence of life and YOU

Love is a mixture of feelings, behaviors and beliefs associated with strong emotions

of affection, protection, warmth and respect for another person.

What is love really?

Love is a favorite subject for us humans. For generations, philosophers, poets, writers and scientists have tried to define it.

While most people agree that love involves strong feelings of affection,

there are many disagreements about its precise meaning.

One person's "I love you" can mean something completely different than someone else's.

When you long for love..

When you long for love, what are you really longing for?

Maybe they can recognize the women's answers when I talk to them:

Twoness, inner peace, joy, physical presence, chemistry and Freedom.

Love can also be:

• A willingness to prioritize another's well-being or happiness over your own.
• Extreme feelings of attachment, affection and need.
• Dramatic, sudden feelings of attraction and respect.
• A fleeting feeling of care, affection and the like.
• A choice to commit to helping, respecting and caring for another, such as in marriage or when having a child.
• A combination of the above feelings.

Only you know what love is like for you. It can change wind direction, or it can feel like a lifelong choice.

Love & Desire

Especially in the early stages of a relationship, it can be difficult to tell the difference between love and lust.

Both are associated with physical attraction and an intoxicating rush of feel-good chemicals, especially oxytocin.

That, combined with an often overwhelming desire to be closer to another person, just feels like love.

Lust or love?

I wonder if you have already considered a number of times: Is this lust or love?

Lust often has to do with the sex-driven sensations that initially draw people towards each other.

Although it doesn't sound so romantic, it is primarily driven by the urge to procreate.

Characterized by sex hormones and idealistic infatuation.

Our desires obscure our ability to see a person as he or she really is.

LOOKING BEHIND THE VEIL OF DESIRE

If it is a long-term relationship you are looking for, you probably want to be able to see the veil of desire

You probably think that you, this time, made a wise choice.

In order to make good decisions for yourself, you need to be in a more emotional and neutral state.

And this is exactly where the chain jumps off for many. Right? :-)

Give your imagination legs to walk on

Have you clarified whether you are living in fantasies about what love is like?

I did that myself for many years. My imaginings were completely unrealistic.

This meant I ignored when the man criticized me or spoke disparagingly.

As a result, there were many thoughts and feelings that I did not allow.

I only want the rosy clouds

Since love was not something I really knew, it turned into the rosy clouds I had never seen in the sky.

You know enough that you get the following realizations when the relationship doesn't last anymore

All the times you ignored how many parties he talked about, went to, how good he was at sneaking out of important issues,

These are all crucial warning lights that we have learned to ignore, because in Wonderland they don't come in that color.

 

Love and mental health

It must go along, the healthy love.

Although almost no one can agree on a single definition of love, most agree that love plays an essential role.

Both for our physical and mental well-being. Numerous studies have shown the benefits of love. The role of love in mental health is far-reaching.

I think it is thought-provoking that if love is missing the following can happen...

 

• The fact that babies who are not shown love and affection in the form of frequent holding and hugging can be developmentally delayed or sick.
• Feeling unloved is strongly correlated with feelings of low self-esteem and depression.
• People who both feel loved by others and who report that they love other people tend to be happier.
• Love can play a role in long-term health, and emotional connectedness can help boost immunity.

Or, as I also understand Peter Pooh's quote...: "Feelings of love are the essence of everything in our lives. "

 

If you, as a woman, would like to have a love conversation with me, then you are welcome.

Love from Life