Do you know that too?

You think you have done EVERYTHING. Still haven't found him yet?

You may have tried…

– being on too many (boring) dates,

– that he burns you off on the deal

– that you give it time and not to be too critical

and of course a lot of other things!

So read along here about how you can turn the tide on the love journey.

So instead it gives you more energy and a more enjoyable life.

 

In this blog you get

-opportunity to reconsider whether you are sabotaging yourself with negative analyses.

-and the simple but too many unknown and indispensable things you must do EVERY time you think negatively about finding love

- you will get the answer to why the most important thing is that you practice your long-term relationship now.

After reading the blog…

When you have read the blog, you are completely clear about what you can do. It's a simple powerful thing you can do daily.

It will help you open up to the love of the right one.

Are you sabotaging yourself with negative analysis?

Every single time I get the analysis. When a woman tells why she hasn't found love yet, she knows 'why'.

She usually has many very good suggestions as to the reason.

The problem? She is stranded in the analysis.

Do you know that too? That you know more about the cause than about what to do?

 

For example. Appearance means a lot to us humans – especially women.

Imagine that you are thinking: "I wonder if it is because I am not good looking that I am not succeeding in finding the right man."

Why is parsing a problem?

The problem with an analysis of that kind is that it will only add something to a diminished self-esteem.

If you then meet the most beautiful man, you will still think the same. Like you're not good looking.

This will sabotage love and you.

Psst... In the real world it is often the case that he is with you because he has a wonderful feeling inside.

Do this instead!

Therefore, it is crucial that your analyzes are turned to your advantage.

And here comes the importance of the mindset of love.

It should help you find love.

Rather than analyzing you up to..

where you

or he

are not good enough.

 

Turn sabotage into driving force

Have you noticed that most often when we analyze, it is when something fails?

It is good to know when you have been in an unfortunate or life-threatening situation.

Otherwise, it is more developmental to investigate how you can, for example, make finding love more fun.

Sarah in my FB group shared how heartbreaking it was to get burned on a date. She is stuck in the 'why'.

Is it recognizable?

That behind the urge for a 'why' either hides, the fear of the past repeating itself,

or

It's probably me it's crazy about.

Use the energy for development

Instead, you will learn more from releasing the energy. Like Sarah – by looking at how she can avoid it happening a second time.

It will also make her even better at attracting and rejecting.

When you catch yourself thinking negatively

You have now heard about how damaging and self-sabotaging it can be to think negatively about yourself and others.

Often it is in fact the limitations of the past that are activated.

The best way to deal with it is for you to maintain: What it is you want.

If the same thing happens again, know that today you can take care of yourself.

Instead, do this simple thing, daily and right now

Look in the mirror and say: "This is what a happy and satisfied woman in a long-term relationship looks like."

Then notice how it feels…

Why the most important thing is that you practice your long-term relationship now.

Most people have a hidden wish that suddenly he is standing there

But what if you are mentally preoccupied with limiting and negative thoughts:

Like…”He only says that because…? “Or…”If he really loved me, he would…”

Every time those thoughts are activated, it affects your emotions.

Consciously choose what you think.

Train yourself to dare love now.

Therefore train yourself to dare love right now.

One woman shared how strange it was to tell a friend how happy she was for her.

She acknowledged that it only showed her how new and unfamiliar it was to feel love.

So instead of shutting it down, she began to react to the environment - and saw how all the good before had been sorted out.

Therefore, let love live now, so that you are ready when you meet him.

 

If you would like to watch it video

 

Good trip from Liv