Do you also think that you have taken all the good advice to heart and it helps just as much?

Still single and still meeting the wrong men? You might have tried different Dating apps, you have relaxed your demands, you have started to be more accommodating. Yet you stand in the same place.

Maybe you know about this one thing you must not do. Therefore, I give you some suggestions on what else you can do. After you read the blog, do you know 3 simple things you can do right away.

She kept doing the same thing 

She was so frustrated to answer the same type of inquiries on the dating site.

You she didn't know what else to do she continued with it.

Do you think I advised her to stay? Because at some point the right one will come along...!

No. Of course I didn't. She was about to explode with frustration.

Instead, I suggested that she stop immediately, because she was losing energy on what wasn't working.

It is more important to find out where in the dating phase you are: Right now! (you will hear more below :-)

15 years ago, when I decided to date, I did everything I would advise you not to do today ;-).

It took me several years just to make one physical date. Something that I know today can happen with the speed of lightning.

With the right approach, you can make it both more fun and faster.

Here are 3 of the focus points:

#1: Yourself!  

Take out your mobile right now, open for camera in selfie mode. Look at yourself and ask: “Do I want to live with

the energy and radiance I emit Right now – daily?” It can be frustration, abandonment, love

some of the infinite variety of energies we can radiate.

I am amazed at how often I meet women who only focus on the man and all the mistakes he makes.

You don't have to make that mistake too.

If after looking at yourself in the 'mirror' you don't think you're beaming with happiness, it's time to do more of what makes you happy.

In this way, you attract the right men more easily.

The women who have taken a dating break for just one week come back from life with updates such as:

They solved the colleague problems (so that all the energy was not sucked out of them), had expanded their network, had stopped seeking out friends who gave them a feeling of inadequacy, sad - about it, or a weakened self-esteem.

#2: Is the profile text inviting?

Is your profile text as interesting as seeing your neighbor's 100 vacation photos? Yep! I tried that when I was young.

I clearly remember how I fled far away when she came.

The profile text must be both personal things about you and then something where you address men in general.

My husband just doesn't find it interesting to hear about psychological topics. There are many men who do not think so.

Anyone can write (and does): I'm humorous. It doesn't make you stand out from the crowd.

Instead, do that you meter a clear picture of you with words. So he can see you.

Make sure there is something surprising he can ask about.

#3 Help there is no chemistry!

If the thought of going on a date bores you, stay home.

Think about what you would rather experience and immediately book another time, a city, an event, mini course...

Hand on heart, you probably know deep down that a man can't save your life.

If you don't think life is as much fun without a boyfriend, or that you don't have a good enough network, then that's the start of an unhealthy relationship in addiction.

It can be ok and quite safe at first, but…

As many have heard me say, chemistry is something we ourselves create (by releasing emotions we create energy and thereby chemistry).

Agree, there are different degrees of chemistry, we don't get bored when we dare to be open and welcoming - especially sensual sounds. Because every man will react to that.

Regardless of whether he is a potential boyfriend or not, you start the chemistry inside yourself, where you get to enjoy it.

That is why it is so crucial to be present right from the first text message.

Because every time we shut our emotions down more, we get more bored.

You have probably guessed what I did myself

Correct. I did next to nothing. Because I thought I still look ok.

I wrote a typical profile. And waited... I waited more than 1 year without getting a single date

 Happy dating journey, and start with the easiest first.

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