{"id":5340,"date":"2023-04-18T11:21:23","date_gmt":"2023-04-18T09:21:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livslovefitness.dk\/?p=5340"},"modified":"2023-04-18T11:21:23","modified_gmt":"2023-04-18T09:21:23","slug":"2-steder-du-kan-moede-en-mand-denne-weekend%f0%9f%91%81%f0%9f%ab%a6%f0%9f%91%81","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livsloveacademy.com\/en\/blog\/2-steder-du-kan-moede-en-mand-denne-weekend%f0%9f%91%81%f0%9f%ab%a6%f0%9f%91%81\/","title":{"rendered":"2 places you can meet a man this weekend\ud83d\udc41\ud83e\udee6\ud83d\udc41"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are you tired of dating?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

As in really tired?!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Have you considered doing something completely different?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

For love you will (<\/strong>of course<\/em>) not to be missed<\/strong><\/p>\n

then it's really lucky<\/p>\n

that there are many places to find a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

And you can start right now.<\/p>\n

Forget everything about<\/h2>\n

That right now you're not quite ready<\/em><\/p>\n

Allow yourself to try an experiment<\/p>\n

Focus on, where<\/em><\/strong> you will meet a man this weekend<\/p>\n

Write behind your ear that when something is new and difficult it is the most important thing<\/p>\n

To make it easy and clear<\/p>\n

Therefore<\/p>\n

Can you start sneak training already now?<\/p>\n

before the weekend when you have more time.<\/p>\n

Because it can be borderline-crossing at the start.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Supermarkets, streets\u2026<\/h2>\n

Use the places you already go,<\/p>\n

but with a completely different approach<\/p>\n

Now you are acting AND 'flirting'!<\/b><\/p>\n

Make it a game.<\/p>\n

Most important\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Make it easy for yourself.<\/p>\n

In the supermarket:<\/p>\n

Get help finding the item<\/p>\n

- maybe something that is too high.<\/p>\n

(don't think girlfriend)<\/p>\n

Rather, think in terms of 'play' so that you do not activate the fear of rejection.<\/p>\n

Try today<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Without too much deliberation,<\/p>\n

if you see an interesting person<\/p>\n

either on the street or in the supermarket<\/p>\n

go and ask them something<\/p>\n

Do you know where X is?<\/p>\n

Deal?<\/p>\n

Forget about evaluating what you do<\/h2>\n

The worst way to punish ourselves is,<\/p>\n

to do the same as our parents did<\/p>\n

They continuously assessed whether we had learned 'it' correctly.<\/p>\n

Now you are an adult and have learned 'it'!<\/p>\n

The effect lies in to do something else<\/em><\/p>\n

Such as getting better at developing contact with a new man,<\/p>\n

rather than whether you are cute enough, pretty enough...<\/p>\n

On the street\u2026 Do you know if this bus goes to X?<\/p>\n

Never mind, you already know the answer.<\/p>\n

(I really want to do a physical Flirting Workshop ;-))<\/p>\n

If now\u2026<\/h2>\n

If you can feel that the person is also interested in you<\/p>\n

(meaning that he doesn't just passively answer your question),<\/p>\n

so keep talking together.<\/p>\n

For the particularly brave: Mention something about how you could use a cup of coffee!<\/p>\n

And! See what happens.<\/p>\n

Remember it's pure play<\/p>\n

and you might do something you've never done before\u2026<\/p>\n

NB: Important to flirt more than take the initiative -<\/p>\n

if you want to cultivate your feminine side and let him be masculine.<\/p>\n

Meet singles in the gym?<\/h2>\n

This tip is backed up by science.<\/p>\n

It's always a good idea to play sports, right?<\/p>\n

Here it is easy to meet other singles \u2013 for sports activities or in the gym.<\/p>\n

It invites you to use the slow game,<\/p>\n

where you makes use of the exposure effect<\/strong><\/p>\n

This psychological mechanism means,<\/p>\n

that when we often see the same face,<\/p>\n

we will begin to find it more attractive.<\/em><\/p>\n

Give in to the instinct that it is natural to greet neutrally,<\/p>\n

when you 'know' him, have seen him a few times.<\/p>\n

Who knows, maybe one thing leads to another.<\/p>\n

I almost want you to be allowed to experiment with this many times.<\/p>\n

Because we learn something new and exciting.<\/p>\n

Him from fitness\u2026 maybe you see him in other contexts,<\/p>\n

then it is much easier to break the ice when you have already seen each other before.<\/p>\n

Have fun with a loving spring game<\/em><\/p>\n

Life<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n

Would you like some inspiration for where to look for men - especially if you're tired of dating sites\"\"<\/h1>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n