{"id":5252,"date":"2023-04-04T12:19:01","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T10:19:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livslovefitness.dk\/?p=5252"},"modified":"2023-04-05T17:25:49","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T15:25:49","slug":"skaeringsdato-for-kaerligheden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livsloveacademy.com\/en\/blog\/skaeringsdato-for-kaerligheden\/","title":{"rendered":"When is your cut off date\u2026 to find love\u2764\ufe0f?"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you look back at how much love has filled your life<\/p>\n

with family, friends and lovers\u2026<\/p>\n

what feeling does it give you then?<\/strong><\/p>\n

is it the sense of optimism that there is 'hope ahead'?<\/p>\n

Have you thought about realizing your hope by having a cut-off date?<\/p>\n

Would you like to meet him right now, yesterday, or ok it won't happen until 20 years from now?<\/p>\n

Your time estimate determines how you search for love.<\/p>\n

Getting lucky with love<\/h2>\n

I had not learned how to succeed with healthy love<\/p>\n

I only knew how to lick my wounds<\/p>\n

-not years, but decades.<\/p>\n

If I hadn't made an active decision to find a boyfriend<\/p>\n

I still wouldn't have learned how<\/em>.<\/p>\n

My Cutoff Date made all the difference.<\/p>\n

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My life before I I set cut-off dates<\/h2>\n

When I used to want to do something new<\/p>\n

-became the terminus of desire: What will the 'neighbour' say?<\/p>\n

Yep that meant (almost) every time\u2026<\/p>\n

I didn't 'do' any of that\u2026<\/p>\n

such as making myself visible to him<\/em>, write reader posts, be politically active, give lectures...<\/p>\n

Stop wasting time<\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know how you can always find a good reason not to do something?<\/p>\n

When I get the thought and then feel that there is energy behind it<\/p>\n

Then I plan to quietly get started<\/strong><\/p>\n

I start walking\u2026 and learn from there about my next step<\/p>\n

Fulfill what you long for<\/h2>\n

Today I know what the problem was\u2026<\/p>\n

By daring to show who i am<\/em>, I developed my self-esteem at the same time<\/strong><\/p>\n

By doing what I dream of\u2026 I became better at living.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And! I got better at it to love myself and others<\/strong><\/p>\n

Staying at home on the couch for decades made me dumber,<\/p>\n

it wore on self-esteem on loneliness when isolation was the answer.<\/p>\n

Do you want to learn to fly?<\/h2>\n

Imagine you want to learn to fly!<\/p>\n

If you've never learned, it's with life as effort.<\/p>\n

Love can hurt so much<\/p>\n

that it is with our joy and self-confidence as effort.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it is crucial to learn: "Never give more than you can stand to lose."<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I clearly remember my own approach: "I want to be able to do it myself."<\/p>\n

until a wise woman asked:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhy do you want to waste so many years trying to figure it out for yourself,<\/p>\n

when, with the right help, you can solve your problems now?\u201d<\/p>\n

What is your cut off date<\/h2>\n

My cut off date made all the difference.<\/p>\n

It often happens that once we have set off, the journey itself becomes so good,<\/p>\n

that the cut-off date to reach a certain place loses its meaning... and isn't it easier to be alone?<\/p>\n

Still, I would say if you allow yourself the love<\/p>\n

the happiness and joy will be greater, because you will learn much more about yourself. Even if the following happens: \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • \"\"We ALL have ups and downs!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • \"\"We ALL doubt ourselves!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • \"\"<\/strong>We ALL have times of uncertainty and when we ask questions about love!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    <\/h2>\n

    We all encounter doubts, fears and close our eyes<\/h2>\n

    For me, training myself out of victim mode had a HUGE effect.<\/p>\n

    Wow, how it has hampered me and what long tentacles the condition has.<\/p>\n

    Again, it's my cutoff dates that helped me.<\/p>\n

    Otherwise I will have been stuck in grief over how unfair it was.<\/p>\n

    Where is your focus?<\/h2>\n

    There is a big difference between whether you choose to look for love or hope it will happen.<\/p>\n

    With a cut-off date that meets your needs,<\/p>\n

    will you already be able to experience love now by fulfilling\u2026<\/p>\n

      \n
    • \"\"Caring \u2013 to myself<\/li>\n
    • \"\"Pay attention to thinking more positively about yourself - strengthen your self-esteem:<\/li>\n
    • \"\"Remind you OPENING MY HEART - does not equal giving it away<\/li>\n
    • \"\"Daily show: THAT I LOVE MYSELF<\/li>\n
    • \"\" Let go of the fear of\u2026 hold on to the dream instead<\/li>\n
    • \"\" Say goodbye to the 'pretty girl' and embark on the journey of the sensual woman\u2026<\/li>\n
    • \"\" Better to FEEL what you feel - instead of soothing the emotions with sweets, Netflix, shopping, sex, etc...<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Wishing you the best journey of love<\/p>\n

      Life :-)<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n

      If you also want to be sure that you reach your Cut-off date\u2026<\/h1>\n

      then I hold a free online workshop.<\/p>\n

      Wednesday 19\/4 2023, where I will show you what it takes to attract the right man and how he will want to enter your Dating Profile.<\/p>\n

      You can register below and I will send you all the information.<\/p>\n

      PS Enjoy showing yourself that you deserve to spend 1 hour on yourself so that your cutoff date becomes more and more realistic to reach.<\/p>\n

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