{"id":4814,"date":"2023-01-23T17:09:27","date_gmt":"2023-01-23T16:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livslovefitness.dk\/?p=4814"},"modified":"2023-01-24T06:51:39","modified_gmt":"2023-01-24T05:51:39","slug":"faa-succesfuld-dating-ved-at-aabne-dit-hjerte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livsloveacademy.com\/en\/uncategorized\/faa-succesfuld-dating-ved-at-aabne-dit-hjerte\/","title":{"rendered":"Have successful dating by opening your heart"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever wondered what it really means to "have an open heart?"<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

You are guaranteed to know loving kindness.<\/p>\n

I myself don't know any better than that.<\/p>\n

Like when a strange woman came running after me when I was leaving an event:<\/p>\n

"It is so rare that I meet another person who is as open as you<\/p>\n

and how lovely it is.\u201d<\/p>\n

I would call that loving kindness.<\/p>\n

Your own inner warmth<\/h2>\n

Imagine the same thing happening after a date where the man runs after you,<\/p>\n

because you were open and accepting on the date,<\/p>\n

Where friendliness flows between you - regardless of whether it should be you or not.<\/p>\n

What prevents you from being able to achieve it?<\/p>\n

One woman realized that the price of inviting an unknown date home was too much vulnerability.<\/p>\n

she had no certainty of what was being opened up to\u2026<\/p>\n

So she remained reticent and judgmental.<\/p>\n

What's stopping you?<\/h2>\n

Imagine that you are prevented from getting to the most exciting party.<\/p>\n

You are especially upset because the person you are fond of will also be there.<\/p>\n

Something similar happens if we have closed our hearts<\/p>\n

due to violent and traumatic events in the past.<\/p>\n

A woman told me how a suicide threat in childhood<\/p>\n

had prevented her from being loose and really happy all her life.<\/p>\n

Are you a brave woman?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

It can take courage to live wholeheartedly again.<\/p>\n

When we "shut down" and pretend something doesn't exist,<\/p>\n

we make it harder to connect with ourselves and with others in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, you can relearn that.<\/p>\n

How would life be different if you were able to keep an open heart?<\/p>\n

What new experiences can you attract with a new vibration at a higher level?<\/p>\n

All of which will lead you down the path to greater happiness and connection.<\/p>\n

What is t<\/strong>suitable for a closed heart:<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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  • Finding fault with others and judging them harshly.<\/li>\n
  • Avoid new experiences and adventures for fear of the unknown.<\/li>\n
  • Feeling paralyzed or stuck.<\/li>\n
  • Being angry, mean, critical of yourself and others.<\/li>\n
  • Withholding love and affection.<\/li>\n
  • Hides away and avoids contact with others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    \u00a0<\/strong>Signs that your heart is open:<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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    • Smiles, laughs and shares with ease.<\/li>\n
    • Enjoying life despite disappointments.<\/li>\n
    • Shows affection towards others.<\/li>\n
    • Focus on the good in people rather than the negative.<\/li>\n
    • Open to new experiences and opportunities.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      How to open your heart:<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      When fear and doubt have caused us to retreat<\/p>\n

      it may be necessary to withdraw again.<\/p>\n

      This time with a new intention to reevaluate our behavior.<\/p>\n

      Is it still necessary to be closed in advance?<\/p>\n

      Is it important that you are closed if you create the necessary security in advance?<\/p>\n

      Then I have a solution for you about a way to open your heart more fully.<\/p>\n

      Spend time alone<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      While being social is a powerful way to find life purpose and open the heart,<\/p>\n

      then it can be a wonderful experience just to feel how safe it can be to open up completely to yourself.<\/p>\n

      Arrange a kind of retreat with yourself in your own company one of the coming weekends.<\/p>\n

      Spending time alone can give you the strength to realize and dare to change.<\/p>\n

      When you are alone, you can take advantage of the absence of distractions and influences from others.<\/p>\n

      Alone time gives space to explore thoughts, dreams, feelings, purpose...<\/p>\n

      have your notebook handy.<\/p>\n

      On the weekend, don't let yourself be distracted by all the options out there<\/p>\n

      you're just experiencing what it's like to be alone with yourself.<\/p>\n

      My friend makes a fire outside and connects with Mother Earth, it's her ritual.<\/p>\n

      Have a good journey home from Liv<\/p>\n

      If you could think of several ways<\/h3>\n

      to open up the crush on, can download this love guide<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n

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