{"id":4522,"date":"2022-11-23T06:00:47","date_gmt":"2022-11-23T05:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livslovefitness.dk\/?p=4522"},"modified":"2022-11-23T11:46:34","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T10:46:34","slug":"oehh-kan-man-goere-andet-end-bare-at-vente-paa-manden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livsloveacademy.com\/en\/blog\/oehh-kan-man-goere-andet-end-bare-at-vente-paa-manden\/","title":{"rendered":"Uhh\u2026 can you do anything other than just wait for the man?"},"content":{"rendered":"

You might be wondering<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Whether there is anything else to do, more or less passively waiting for the man to appear on his own.<\/p>\n

The problem is only if he hasn't appeared yet.<\/p>\n

So read here<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u2013 what you can do to find him<\/p>\n

- How you can make him want to meet you<\/p>\n

\u2013 the mistake we typically keep repeating<\/p>\n

After you read the blog<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Have you learned that there are other options than just waiting for the right man.<\/p>\n

I was asked that question by a woman from my Facebook group.<\/p>\n

I became so excited at the same time that it rained down on me new questions such as\u2026<\/p>\n

    \n
  • If your relationships haven't worked out well in the past, won't you be better able to deal with them now?<\/li>\n
  • If you think you've attracted the wrong men in the past, don't you want to learn how to attract the right ones?<\/li>\n
  • How long do you dare to wait? 1 year, 5 years, 10 years? Are you ready to wait your whole life? if it were to be<\/li>\n
  • How do you want to avoid your self-esteem being weakened by thinking that you are the one who is not loved?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    It made me think about what I had done myself.<\/p>\n

    How my frustration kept the man at bay<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    It is frustrating when relationships fail one time after another.<\/p>\n

    The answer also took me on a journey back.<\/p>\n

    Because before I started succeeding in developing good relationships and meeting the right ones, I felt on the Lord's field.<\/p>\n

    I was totally crazy about failed relationships. .<\/p>\n

    The emotional strain at times felt like sitting in a centrifuge.<\/p>\n

    Without a stop button, and with a chaos of emotions swirling around<\/p>\n

    Why couldn't I figure out such a basic thing as a close relationship.<\/p>\n

    Apparently it was something everyone else was good at. My sister was especially good at it.<\/p>\n

    All that frustration only helped to keep the good men at bay.<\/p>\n

    Is the man more important than you?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    Can you recognize that, like me, you get that ratio blown up to something close to a daily exam?<\/p>\n

    It was exhausting for both parties.<\/p>\n

    The constant need to confirm the other is important.<\/p>\n

    As my girlfriend says, I chose you because you are important.<\/p>\n

    However\u2026 I found out one essential thing that I kept repeating.<\/p>\n

    Every time I was in a relationship, I focused so much on the relationship,<\/p>\n

    that I completely neglected myself.<\/p>\n

    When it doesn't feel healthy.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    When I started to see how harmful some of the patterns were<\/p>\n

    Both for me and love life,<\/p>\n

    I made some promises to myself.<\/p>\n

    The following decisions were made<\/p>\n

    The 3 agree with myself<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    It had all become so complicated, all the psychological talk took me further away from myself.<\/p>\n

    Therefore, I had to make it super simple.<\/p>\n

    So I could also figure out how to develop a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

    I agreed\u2026<\/p>\n

      \n
    1. The relationship with myself must always come first<\/li>\n
    2. A man will never be more important to me than I am to myself<\/li>\n
    3. I will always love myself more than any man in my life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      How to make him want to meet you<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      Phew, that was a relief to come up with.<\/p>\n

      Therefore, I would also recommend that you navigate on your own<\/p>\n

      It is impossible to navigate from very different men - even if they look alike.<\/p>\n

      Think that by getting the work done with our own relationship problems, we can attract the right men<\/p>\n

      The peace it gives, not being dependent on the man is persistent and constant.<\/p>\n

      Thereby you only become dependent on having a good foundation to stand on.<\/p>\n

      It is especially good in bad weather.<\/p>\n

      The mistake we typically keep repeating<\/strong><\/h2>\n

      Afterwards I can see that my problem was<\/p>\n

      That I was always aware of where the man was focused<\/p>\n

      Was it on me? Was it others? Was he happy with me? Was he happy with me?<\/p>\n

      So by feeling myself, I also found out how to react before the problems became too big.<\/p>\n

      Just know that you have a focus on you and how the relationship feels in you.<\/p>\n

       <\/p>\n

      Welcome home<\/p>\n

      Life<\/p>\n

       <\/p>\n

      PS By telling my story, I can only say that it is a problem I often see many other women repeating, so if you can recognize it, you will benefit a lot from turning the focus back on yourself.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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