{"id":4203,"date":"2022-09-27T12:17:50","date_gmt":"2022-09-27T10:17:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/livslovefitness.dk\/?p=4203"},"modified":"2022-10-11T18:13:01","modified_gmt":"2022-10-11T16:13:01","slug":"giv-slip-paa-fortiden-saa-du-tiltraekker-den-rette-mand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livsloveacademy.com\/en\/uncategorized\/giv-slip-paa-fortiden-saa-du-tiltraekker-den-rette-mand\/","title":{"rendered":"Let go of the past - so you attract the right man"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you wish you didn't let the past rule you? <\/em><\/p>\n

-because it eats away at your joy in life to keep attracting the same and the wrong men.<\/p>\n

- or because it is difficult to gain trust in a man and in love - again.<\/p>\n

The past is the biggest obstacle for too many to dare love.<\/p>\n

Because the emotions tell it is too risky.<\/p>\n

Get the answer to\u2026<\/h3>\n

\u2013 why it is so hard to let go of the past<\/p>\n

\u2013 how you can learn to let go of the past<\/p>\n

-and why men and women become each other's obstacles.<\/p>\n

After reading the blog\u2026<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Do you know more about how you can let go of the past and get ready for the right man<\/p>\n

Why do we cling to the past?<\/h2>\n

Why is it so hard to let go of experiences that have caused us pain and suffering?<\/p>\n

Many of us cling to the past because of our need for certainty. Here's the certainty that it won't happen again.<\/p>\n

Security is one of the basic human needs.<\/p>\n

We don't think about it on a daily basis because we are busy living our lives,<\/p>\n

but it is fundamentally about survival.<\/p>\n

That's why it's so hard to let go of the past<\/h2>\n

We need to feel confident that we can avoid pain and ideally find comfort in our lives.<\/p>\n

Letting go of the past also means stepping into the unknown.<\/p>\n

It means having the courage to let go of the familiar \u2013 even if it is negative.<\/p>\n

It takes courage to be vulnerable enough to embrace and learn from the unknown that lies ahead.<\/p>\n

The feminine core<\/h2>\n

There is another reason why it is so difficult to learn to let go of the past.<\/p>\n

We associate feelings with information.<\/p>\n

For example, consider a woman who has a feminine core.<\/p>\n

If her partner does something that causes her emotional pain, she may tend to bring it up again and again throughout the relationship.<\/p>\n

Her partner feels that it is impossible to win.<\/p>\n

No matter how much he does to change the situation, she continues to punish him for his past transgressions.<\/p>\n

Emotions hold us back<\/h2>\n

But there's a very real reason why she can't figure out how to let go of the past.<\/p>\n

Information with emotion makes an indelible impression.<\/p>\n

A person with a highly feminine core will attach emotion to anything that affects them in a significant way.<\/p>\n

Especially if it causes them pain or suffering. This makes it harder for them to let go of the past.<\/p>\n

The masculine core<\/h2>\n

Contrast that with a masculine core. A very masculine person cares and feels things deeply.<\/p>\n

While feminine energy is about filling up and gathering, masculine energy is about breaking through and letting go.<\/p>\n

Common to both sexes<\/h2>\n

Regardless of gender, when there are still feelings attached to a memory, it becomes increasingly difficult to move on from the past.<\/p>\n

It's about loosening your grip on it. It will help you move forward in a healthier and happier way.<\/p>\n

Since "We are our minds - regardless of the life lived, it's about letting go of the emotions.<\/p>\n

What's holding you back?<\/h2>\n

The first step is to recognize what is holding you back.<\/p>\n

What exactly are you holding on to?<\/h3>\n